People are wheels.

Salam ;)
People walk roundly in a cycle, like a wheel. A round journey that bring us upward and downward. True. 
But a cycle can also be defined as a path that must be followed, must be rotated, so we will never be deviated from the human rules and natures.

A child must be allowed to explore the dust, the dirt, and let them to be innovative and creative in their world. I admit, some, or almost parents are very protective. They as much as possible try to put their kids in a circle with free of dirt, free of dust. They say no to bacterias. They warn the pain to be away from their kids.

Somehow, being too protective is not pretty good. Dirt and dust may teach them to be a humble person, non arrogant and easy-going people. Bacterias will train their internal army to be sensitive towards future attacks. Through pain, they learn to be brave; they learn how to carefully and maturely make a decision. A hardship during play shapes them to be tough and wise leader later on. Still, a playful environment gives them lots of morals and values to be applied on. They know how to choose good friends, to have an unwavering identity. Anyway, play station and computer games are not included in these healthy child developments. ;p See, how cruel we are to our kids.

A child time knowledge will be brought to their teen's and adult's life. If we were altering their normal pathway that they should went through, what are left for them to be carried out for their future? Can they wisely choose a good friend? Can they build their strong identity? Dangerous isn't it?

Or worsen if the parental pampering were theirs in childhood, completed with unexposed to the normal child development, but they end up without parental guidance in their  teen's age. It is even more dangerous. If anything bad happens, should they be blamed for our faults? Pity those little kids. *sigh*

Hey hey hey, the solution is here. Allah won't leave us without His complete guidance.


Treat the kids as your king, treat your kids as your slaves, treat your kids as your friends. Each corresponds to their certain particular age ranges.


Be as nature as our Rabb creates. ;)